wine sympathy gift baskets

Ok, this could be controversial, asking for friend?

We wondered if wine sympathy gift baskets were appropriate?
Why, because, we as a group of friends want to create one for one of us who is going through bereavement.

Our friend has lost a parent, they love wine, we go to wine bars regularly and have an unofficial kind of wine club going between ourselves.

But, that said, the usual sympathy gift would be flowers or candles and we didn't really want to break protocol and seen to being a bit "crass"

What would you advise on this particular occasion?

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Some thoughts
by: Jackie

Not a controversial question at all , in fact, it's actually a very thoughtful one.

The short answer is: yes, in the right context, a wine themed sympathy gift basket can be appropriate and in this case, it sounds like it would be.

Here’s why: every grief situation is unique, and when you're supporting someone close to you, the most meaningful gifts often come from shared connections.

If wine has been a big part of your friendship, your outings, celebrations, and time spent together, then creating a wine inspired basket could feel very personal and comforting to your friend.

t's less about the wine itself, and more about the love and familiarity it represents.

You’re right that traditional sympathy gifts tend to be flowers, candles, or food baskets, and they do suit many situations.

But, when something more personal feels right, and it's given with care and intention (which you clearly have), it’s not crass, at all, it’s kind.

You might consider including a handwritten note explaining why you chose the items, maybe something about raising a glass in memory, or how they’re not alone and you’re all still here, together, one glass at a time, something along those lines...

It can turn a potentially sensitive idea into something deeply touching and respectful.

That said, I’ll be creating a separate page in due course, specifically for wine related sympathy gifts, with ideas and wording suggestions for situations just like this, so stay tuned...

But for now, I’d say: if your heart’s in the right place (which it clearly is), then go for it.

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