plant gifts for bereavement

I would like to offer a plant as a bereavement gift, instead of the usual boring flowers.

Are there any specific ones I should offer or conversely not offer?
I want to be thoughtful not just random in my purchase.

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Some ideas
by: Jackie

What a lovely and considered idea.

Plants can make meaningful bereavement gifts because they’re lasting, living symbols and they continue to grow alongside grief, which is a really lovely way of looking at it don't you think, rather than fading quickly like cut flowers, that last a week or less..

I would suggest though, if you are thinking of this idea, perhaps check to see if, at all possible, the person does like house plants or garden plants.

I know it is not always easy to ask.....

I for one, get annoyed with house plants, too much space taken up that I don't have but I would love a plant for outside!

I know it is the thought that counts but my aim is to always help you get the"right thing" where possible.

So,

When choosing a plant, it helps to think about symbolism, ease of care, and the tone it sets.

Here are a few ideas that come to mind, and you could match a card visually or with words to share the symbolism, which I think is rather lovely

A Peace Lily – A classic condolence plant.

With its calming white blooms, it symbolises peace, rebirth, and healing. It’s also relatively easy to care for, which can be a kindness during a difficult time.

An Olive Tree (or a small indoor version) – Traditionally associated with peace and endurance.

This can be a poignant choice if you want something symbolic and slightly more unusual.

The Classic Rosemary – Known for remembrance of course, rosemary is especially meaningful.

It can be kept in a pot indoors or out and is often appreciated by those who enjoy cooking or gardening and the smell is intoxicating

A Beautiful Orchid – A more elegant and slightly minimalist choice, orchids can symbolise strength, beauty, and resilience.

A white orchid, in particular, carries a quiet dignity.

Plants to perhaps avoid include cacti or anything spiky, which might unintentionally feel harsh or cold in the context of grief.

Similarly, anything too high-maintenance might feel like a burden rather than a gift.

Aim for something gentle, calming, and symbolic but also manageable.

Including a simple note about why you chose the plant can make your gesture even more meaningful.

A sentence, such as "I chose this rosemary because it has long been a symbol of remembrance" helps your intention shine through.

Good luck with your search and feel free to come back with a photo of your choice of plant, I will post it up here...it might help someone else choose.

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